Wednesday, December 09, 2009

:: Too Much of Sorry Make You Sick ::


Sorry Sorry Sorry Sorry Naega naega naega meonjeo... :) ok ok, I'm sorry, maybe i should first stop the nonsense on singing the korean sorry-sorry love song. Cause this post is not about promoting the song nor am i gonna talk about korean bands invasion on our shore lately. However, the song title is somewhat relevant though. The word "Sorry". Just how much times have u ever heard it being used on yourself? I mean, just how many times people around you have said the word sorry to you? Bear in mind, by saying sorry here is not the typical "i'm sorry, can u help me close the door" thing cause that would be just an expression or courtesy when you're asking something... so that doesnt count. What i would like to talk about is rather the usage of sorry, when you actually done something and felt the need for an apology. so anyway, i've known this 1 person for quite sometime. Quite complicated person from my 1st impression. Very very strict on avoiding jinx related stuff that i'd say she's abit paranoid lol! But recently she did thaught me something which is true yet i've never put it into thoughts until now. She told me people can become sick of apologies when it becomes too much... Hence, what is considered too much? more than once? more than twice? or issit even 1 time is already too much? so when is it u need to say sorry and when do u need to stop saying it? Obviously, one would use it when they felt they've done something wrong but to what extend do we need to use it? Issit until the other party forgives us? Or issit until the other party tells u to stop and get the hell out of his/her life? or perhaps until you yourself think enough is enough? i dont have the answer but 1 thing i know.. i think i need to limit my own sorry usage maybe just 1 time if i were to use it and see how things goes..

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